Psalm 119:5: Oh, that my actions would consistently reflect your decrees!
I had an interesting work situation arise on Monday that challenged me to keep a godly perspective. A client blamed me for the content of a media story I landed on their behalf. They accused me of not representing their best interests. For ethical reasons, I will not share too many details or the client’s name.
The situation made me angry. I was justified, after all, because they repeatedly declined my recommendations that would have changed the outcome. I wanted to defend myself for the sake of my reputation. I quickly typed up an email in my defense. Point by point I articulated how I was not to blame. I pulled excerpts from documents outlining the recommendations I had made. And then I didn’t send it.
An afternoon run gave me a fresh perspective and opened my eyes. I realized that it is not for me to defend myself. People will always find fault with who I am and what I do. My hostile email would have made the situation worse. They wanted someone to blame and didn’t care if it was accurately placed.
The best response to this situation is to honor my commitment to that client, do the best work I can do and let God hold them accountable for their words and accusations. My pride still wants me to defend myself, even three days later. But, I know that God is pleased with my actions. And as long as He is pleased with my actions and who I am, that’s all that matters.
Romans 12:17: Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable.
I know how difficult this must be for you. I think it is great that you are not trying to find out who should be burdened with the “blame”. I also think it is a great opportunity to point out the steps you want to follow in the future should the situation present itself again.