You know one thing I hate about myself sometimes? I’m human and I can’t help it.

As such, I need validation and affirmation to persist at my work, my relationships, my writing. Without validation and affirmation, I get discouraged and grow weary. That’s where I am today.

I enjoy writing this blog. It gives me time with God and a chance to know him on a deeper level. As I write, he teaches me and speaks to me. That alone should be the validation I need to continue. Sadly, some days it’s not.

Worldly Validation
Sometimes I need more tangible/visible validation. For my blog that comes in the form of statistics and comments. Yes, every day I check the stats on my blog to see how many people read it. I get discouraged if the numbers are low. My ego is directly proportionate to the number of visitors on a given day.

I know I’m not alone. Bloggers obsess over numbers as much as ministries fixate on butts in seats. There have been many ministries and groups started in obedience to God. After dedicating time and energy to increasing attendance, visibility and sometimes funding, the founders grow weary when results are less than what they hoped. Many ministries fold before they have a chance to blossom.

Small Beginnings
In Zechariah 4:10, the Lord says, “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin…”

Every effort for God starts small. Billy Graham or Joyce Meyer didn’t start their ministries with stadium-sized crowds. God will grow those efforts done in his will and in his name — in his time. We just need to begin the work and trust God to use it. He may not plan for our work, group or ministry to attract the most attention or biggest crowds. He may only want to use us to make a difference for one person — and that person may be ourselves.

Validation from God
Whatever work we do for God, we need to keep our eyes focused on him and seek glory only for his name’s sake. Our work is about God, not us. As hard as it is, we need to seek only his validation. He knows when we grow weary and will cause someone to offer us the affirmation we crave.

What work do you need encouragement in today? How has God encouraged you to continue your work in the past? Would you share with a comment (and indulge my need for human validation)?

Galatians 6:9 (NLT): So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.

1 Corinthians 15:58 (NLT): So, my dear brothers and sisters, be strong and immovable. Always work enthusiastically for the Lord, for you know that nothing you do for the Lord is ever useless.