(c) 2010, Amy S. Lewis

There are times when Ernie and I get along, communicate well and don’t have power struggles. He’s cooperative. Calm. Responsive. He’s settled, leaving behind his nervousness and prancing. It’s wonderful thing.

Positive Force
Reflecting on this blissful connection, I realize Ernie’s nervousness is subdued when mine is – when I am personally more peace-filled because of submission to the Holy Spirit. I am more self assured, less fearful and less concerned about outward appearance. My peace has influenced Ernie.

Responsibility
Just like my demeanor can influence Ernie, so too can our behaviors impact others. There’s responsibility that goes along with the ability to influence. Who may be looking to you as an example? Who looks up to you or seeks your advice? These are the people you influence, and your opinion and approval matter to them.

As Christians, we have the responsibility to honor and respect the people we influence. We have the responsibility to represent Christ. That means keeping conversations confidential, and loving people as Christ loves us. It means directing people’s attention and thoughts to Christ. In some situations, we may be the only person to speak godly truths to someone.

Romans 14:13: So let’s stop condemning each other. Decide instead to live in such a way that you will not cause another believer to stumble and fall.

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Inciting Others
Keep in mind that we can also get people worked up by our example. In the book of Acts (chapters 13 and 16) those who opposed Paul stirred up the crowds against him – once leading to Paul’s stoning and another causing him to leave town. It only takes one person to start a riot and lead others into sin. That’s why Paul tells us in Philippians 2:14 to live lives pure and blameless.

God Honoring
Take a minute to reflect on your behavior and how it may rub off on others. Would God be honored by your actions and influence? If not, what will you do to change your behavior and be a positive influence? You may be a critical piece in someone else’s journey of faith. Is it time for you to step forward and be used?

Matthew 18:6: But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to have a large millstone tied around your neck and be drowned in the depths of the sea.

Questions for reflection:
1. In general, how do your actions influence others? Negatively or positively? To act or to stand back? Would God be honored by the way you influence others? What conscious changes can you make today to be a more positive influence on others?
2. How might God want to use you to positively influence those around you?
3. How can you step forward and influence others for Christ today?